Go From Survival to Freedom

  • Reclaim your self worth
  • Awaken your Inner Rebel &
  • Attract your greatest love.


Contessa Here.

I’m an Intimacy and Integrity Coach showing survivors of abuse the path to lasting intimacy and safety

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Get my Love, Safety & Belonging Meditation

This 15-minute Meditation Will Move you Towards Your Most Connected Self

In this awe-inspiring (and free) audio recording you’ll learn to boldly move towards love and to mindfully heal yourself from the inside out.

Who is Talking Here?

Not your average Jane, for sure!

Hi! I’m Contessa Akin, Intimacy & Integrity Coach.

Mother of two beautiful children, Wife, Veteran and most importantly a Rebel.

Certified coach who is living to help other women like the ‘old me’ who are struggling to find love and peace in life.

My secret is to help you find your inner-self that you don’t know you have or have forgotten.

I was also lost once like you.

Sexually abused, deprived by my mother and close family, I grew up hating life and hating myself.

That led to many bad decisions and bad experiences. But I’m proud to say, I overcame that past. And I helped many men and women overcome their past as well.

With years of personal experience, professional training and deep spiritual work, I discovered a process that finally helped me to heal from abuse.

Now my mission is to help you heal too.

*Journey of finding my own worth...raw & uncensored

Aww! My Clients Are The Best!

What my fellow Rebels are saying...

"I lost like 30 pounds! The conversations we were having were more around my core nucleus and my family of origin. We did the work I hadn’t done before. It's going to sound silly from a then 48 year old woman, but I grew up. I was stuck in my past, regardless if I knew it or not, I had been for years stuck in a life that I wasn't participating in."

"I have had major breakthroughs allowing me the ability to move forward in my life goals and purposes. The saying you don’t know what you don’t know is true! I did not know the specific things I was holding onto, or rather the things that were in the driver seat of my life. I have found freedom from those chains and peace and joy in today!! Everyday! Contessa has the gift to lead and guide you through group work, individual work, and events that are life altering."

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Ready to Attract Healthy & Vibrant Relationships into Your Life?

Abuse, past trauma and depression don’t have to have the final word.

That’s why I’ve created the Stability Star 9 Week Journey. This program  gives you ALL the tools you need:

  • to trust yourself,
  • to be the ‘rebel’ you are 
  • to finally live a confident, peaceful life.
  • and much more!!

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